Every home must be Built on a Solid Foundation

A Better U Foundation

Every home must be built on a solid foundation and not to just hold the house above ground. Building the foundation also keeps out moisture, insulates against cold, and resists movement of the earth around it.

Think about your marriage. Are you building it on a solid foundation? Rather you are engaged to be married or have been married for years, it’s time to build or rebuild.

Don’t ignore the damage signs

In a marriage, there will be some cracking in the foundation. If you ignore the cracks, you will give the enemy room to destroy your marriage.

Here are damage signs to look for:

1. Dealing with those difficult conversations

2. No more DNA (Date Night Always)

3. No vision

4. No Sex

5. No Prayer

6. Unforgiveness

7. No Mercy

Just like the moon goes through a phase, so does your marriage. Just like the seasons change, so do we. You must want to seek for more. Don’t be comfortable with saying this is just the way it is.

There is a Benjamin Franklin quote that says, “If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail”. If something is continually failing, it says we either have no plan or we have the wrong plan. Is your plan to fail? Most marriage/relationships fail because they have no plans for success. Marriages are under attack.

When we think about planning for our life success, writing goals (a plan) helps make it happen.

Why not make some goals for your marriage to make it happen! Just like life requires a plan to succeed, our marriage requires a plan to succeed.

I believe that God has a good plan and good purpose in all he does. We must stop looking from the natural eye and begin to look from the spiritual eye.

I believe when this pandemic hit, it was in God’s plan to bring it back to the foundation in our homes. We were becoming so busy in life that our homes were falling apart. We will say goodbye, love you and good night love with such ease. Working day in and day out, avoiding a lot of those difficult conversations. When bedtime came, you curled up like you were asleep to avoid that conversation regarding having sex with him or her, seeing the kids off to school and seeing them to bed. No family time; no DNA (Date Nite Always). No conversation but “Hi” and “Goodnight”, even if you got that.

Ladies, let’s get it back: “Hot in our Homes”.

Topics:

1. Plan

2. Conversation

3. AAA (Affirmation, Attitude, and Action)

4. DNA (Date Night Always)

5. Dress Code--

Find Your GPS (Gods Positioning System) and take the AAA “6 Weeks to A Better You!”